Motherhood is truly a journey that shapes and changes you through experience and age. Here’s how, at age 38, motherhood has impacted me.
Motherhood is a transformative journey that brings with it an array of challenges, joys, and lessons. At 38, reflecting on my experience as a mom reveals how profoundly it has shaped me into the person I am today. It has taught me resilience, reshaped my priorities, deepened my sense of empathy, and fostered an appreciation for the beauty of small, everyday moments.
How Being a Mom Has Shaped Me At Age 38
If you have been following along with me here from the beginning, you know I like to reflect on the topic of motherhood and change every once in a while. I wouldn’t say that I was lost before becoming a mom, but these 5 ways being a mom has helped me find myself still hold true today. Motherhood is not only transformative but also a pivotal moment in our lives. I’ve learned that it has changed me for the better and helped mold me into the person I am at this very moment.
Resilience Through the Challenges
Motherhood has been an exercise in resilience. From sleepless nights with a crying infant to navigating the emotional complexities of parenting a growing child, it has tested my patience and endurance in ways I never imagined. There were moments when I felt overwhelmed, unsure of my abilities, or just plain exhausted. Yet, each challenge pushed me to dig deeper, find solutions, and keep going.
This resilience has extended beyond parenting into other areas of my life. Whether it’s facing workplace challenges, managing relationships, or tackling unexpected hurdles, I approach difficulties with a greater sense of calm and determination, knowing I’ve already conquered some of life’s toughest moments as a mom.
A Shift in Priorities
Before becoming a mom, much of my focus was on personal ambitions—career goals, hobbies, and social activities. While those are still important, motherhood has reshaped my priorities. My children’s well-being and happiness now hold the top spot. Decisions about my career, home life, and even my personal growth are often made with their needs in mind.
This shift doesn’t mean I’ve lost my sense of self. Instead, it has helped me find a more balanced version of myself, where personal fulfillment and family life coexist. I’ve learned to set boundaries and say no to things that don’t align with my values, creating space for what truly matters.
A Deepened Sense of Empathy
One of the most profound changes motherhood has brought is an increased capacity for empathy. Becoming a parent has given me a new perspective on what it means to care for someone unconditionally. I understand the sacrifices my own parents made and empathize with other parents navigating similar challenges.
This empathy extends beyond the realm of parenting. I find myself more compassionate toward others, even strangers. Knowing how unpredictable and complex life can be, I approach people with greater understanding, recognizing that everyone is carrying their own burdens.
Appreciating the Beauty in the Everyday
Before I became a mom, I often took small moments for granted. Now, the simplest things—like hearing my child’s laughter, watching them discover something new, or sharing a quiet moment at bedtime—fill my heart with joy. Motherhood has taught me to slow down and appreciate these fleeting moments, which are the essence of life.
At 38, I’ve realized that life isn’t about grand achievements or constant hustle; it’s about the little things that make up our days. My children have shown me the magic in a morning hug, a messy art project, or a shared meal, reminding me to find gratitude in the present.
Personal Growth and Self-Reflection
Motherhood has also been a mirror, reflecting back my strengths and areas where I need growth. It’s taught me to be more patient, not just with my children but with myself. It’s helped me recognize the importance of self-care, as I’ve learned that I can’t pour from an empty cup.
Being a mom has also forced me to confront my imperfections. I’ve had to let go of the idea of being a “perfect” parent and instead embrace being a present one. This shift has brought a sense of freedom and authenticity to my parenting journey, allowing me to connect with my children in more meaningful ways.
Building a Legacy
At this stage in life, motherhood has also made me think about the legacy I want to leave behind. The values I instill in my children—kindness, resilience, curiosity, and integrity—are the seeds of that legacy. Knowing that I have the privilege and responsibility of shaping the next generation gives my life a deeper sense of purpose.
A Journey of Transformation
At 38, being a mom has profoundly shaped who I am. It has taught me resilience, shifted my priorities, deepened my empathy, and opened my eyes to the beauty of everyday moments. It has also spurred personal growth, helping me become more patient, self-aware, and grateful.
Motherhood is not without its challenges, but those challenges have made me stronger and more grounded. It has been a journey of transformation—one that continues to evolve as my children grow. Each phase of motherhood brings new lessons and opportunities for growth, and I embrace them with an open heart, knowing that this journey is shaping not just my children but also the best version of myself.
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How has becoming a mom shaped you?
XOXO,
Allison
