5 Impactful Dinner Table Conversations For Raising Inclusive Children

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These impactful conversation starters will get your kids thinking and learning.

I know that we aren’t always able to get everyone around the dinner table at the same time every night, but even just one or two nights a week make a huge difference. I’ve spoken with so many mamas who have revealed to me that one of the best outcomes of being quarantined due to COVID-19 is the fact that their family has all been together at meal time. It’s time to use that time together for more than just connecting with one another, this is where we need to start age appropriate conversations with our kids to make sure they groww to be inclusive children.

5 Impactful Dinner Table Conversations For Raising Inclusive Children

Now I’m not perfect or an expert, but I do know the impact that quality family time has on my family and I. Here are some conversation starters that are wonderful starting points for the big conversations that will promote anti-racism, diversity and inclusivity.

1. Ask: What was something new you learned about a friend today?

Teach: How much learning new things about others brings us together.

2. Ask: What is something you have in common with a friend that surprised you?

Teach: We all have differences, but also have common bonds, too.

3. Ask: What is something you have heard on the news lately that concerns you?

Teach: This is great for older kids and a wonderful way to dig a little bit deeper and explore their emotions. Use the news as as starting point to teach things about what is going on in your child’s world, ways they can get involved and help, and address anything that may be bothering them.

4. Ask: What is something that you did this week that was kind?

Teach: Kindness should always be on our children’s brains and this is a huge part of making sure that they are including everyone. I used to ask Branden this every single day whenever he got off the bus in NYC and really need to bring this tradition back.

5. Ask: If you could meet someone who spoke a different language and lived in a different country, what are a few things you would ask them?

Teach: Taking an interest in people who might be different from them.

Additional tips that help to raise inclusive kids:

Model the behavior that you want to see in your children
Make sure they understand empathy at a young age
Always promote kindness
Be open to having the big discussions and don’t shy away from the hard questions
Expose your children to different experiences and people (I loved how the kids were exposed to so much on a daily basis when we lived in NYC, and we have to broaden their horizons now in different ways.)
Always emphasize that while people are different, that we all still have so many wonderful similarities
Make sure that you are intentionally seeking out teaching moments